May I say I could relate quite a bit to some things being said. Especially that last part resonated well with me. Got a complicated relationship with my chest too, but not into wanting top surgery. I'm privileged to pass without a binder too (despite not having the smallest chest) "It’s not your fault. Society is just fucked up. Breasts are not the problem." Just as the other person commented, this is something so true imo. It doesn't only hurt trans people but cis women as well. Personally, I experience more social dysphoria through how society looks at my body and immediately puts it in the box of 'female', how society reminds me that what I have is 'female' when I know it isn't like that for me. "when I’m alone with you, I like you just fine." This, this this
Thanks for this very open and honest story. We need more of them.